
This boxy blouse needed shape
Do you have blouses that just don’t behave well? I do. Well, actually, I knew I bought into some trouble when I bought this black and white blouse but I was desperate to try something new. Fanciful sleeves were rockin’ the fashion world and I was feeling way unhip when I didn’t jump in. My Instagram friends were doing it and they looked GREAT.
I remember the day I took a walk over to the wild side of Nordstrom, the side that had the ruffled, interesting-sleeved tops.
The black and white gingham check had me hook, line, and sinker. How I morphed into a gingham check girl with having had a long history of solid-colored, silk blouses is a mystery to me. But it’s been like falling for the bad boy in high school, the attraction is real, my friends. Real real!

The original shape is very square
The top came with problems
The top was all cotton. Not horrible but it meant no stretch. The sleeves had very manageable rows of deep ruffles. That was fine; they weren’t too long. The fact there was no stretch in the fabric wasn’t restricting my movement. But I really wasn’t sure how it was supposed to be styled (like who would wear this best?) because the shape is just a box. You know, tree trunk like.
Now I’m mostly square in the torso area. There aren’t a lot of curves in my trunk. Do I want to bring attention to my thickness? Not so much!
I was able to create some waist interest the first time I wore this purchase.

How I wore this top before
I pulled some of the volume of the top in when I used my dad’s necktie as my belt. That outfit also included a cropped satin jacket, which added dimension and made it look less boxy. Here’s the full anatomy of that outfit.
This time I was in a hurry getting dressed and didn’t want to spend time on the tie belt and the jacket. And I wanted to dress it down, wear sneakers. What to do? What to do?
I spy with my little eye another possible option
Let’s to back a couple of weeks. I was cruising Instagram one day when I saw a post by my Instagram pal, Cheryl Tucker @northwesternmountainliving. Her website goes by the same name.

Cheryl Tucker
Her great white top and the asymmetrical shape of it caught my eye. I left a comment.
Whoa! I couldn’t wait to try the Cheryl Tucker Tip.
Thankfully it came to mind when I put on my beloved gingham check top today. Could I use Cheryl’s trick and make it look less boxy by pulling the hem through my belt loop?
I gave it a whirl.
Demonstrating Cheryl Tucker’s shirt styling tip
I slipped into my pants and gingham top. I added my accessories. I pulled one side of my top.

Pulling my blouse to get ready to go through belt loop
I got the shape I wanted and then created a tail.

Creating a tail
Next I looked for my belt loop.

Finding the belt loop
Then I started pulling the tail through the loop.

Insert tail into loop
I got some draping in the top which I L-O-V-E! It gives my trunk some definition. And I love the asymmetry of it. It makes me feel more girlie this way.

The boxy shape is gone
Cheryl’s top was much longer than mine. She had more fabric to work with than I did. Even so, I’d say this was successful!

Wearing my dot jacket over my checked blouse
Because it was in the 70’s outside, I wore the shirt without my dot jacket for most of the day while working with our client. But then it got chilly and I put my polka dot jacket on. I like the fact that beneath the straight lines of the jacket is the asymmetry of the top.
I can’t wait to try this Cheryl Tucker Tip on all my tops and blouses. I’m so excited to be sharing it with you! Cheryl wears jeans a lot so you might team your new creation with jeans and check yourself out in the mirror! Do you have something in your closet that’s begging to be pulled through your belt loops? Do you think this would work for you? Let’s talk styling tips!
XO
Outfit Details
- Black pant by White House Black Market (available here)
- Polka dot jacket by Chico’s (past year)
- Gingham shirt by Halogen, Nordstrom (past year)
- Tennis shoes by AGL (past years)
- Mickey Mouse watch/pearl necklace bought at Petaluma Antique Faire
- Gold ring by Victor Sanz (one of a kind)
22 Comments
spags
May 10, 2018 at 3:21 amOoh, this looks interesting. How do you get it to stay in place, is there enough fabric to tie a knot? I do like that shirt, I liked the jacket and tie/belt thing you did with it.
I’m not doing the whole weird sleeves thing though.
Brenda
May 10, 2018 at 8:56 amNo weird sleeves for you! This is the only one I have, but the checks! I fell hard! Because this top is fairly short, it did slip out once or twice yesterday. I think I could have anchored it with a safety pin. A knot would have made it too short. With longer pieces, I think it would be great!
Melissa
May 10, 2018 at 7:26 pmI could also see you anchoring it with any of your lovely brooch pins. You really do put together the BEST outfits. As I return to work full time for my “next chapter” you are absolutely my inspiration (in more ways than one!).
Cathy Heine
May 10, 2018 at 4:54 amBrilliant!
Brenda
May 10, 2018 at 8:50 amThanks!
Trinnie Q
May 10, 2018 at 5:53 amThis is very timely. I was just lamenting the length of a shirt, which was a bit long to wear Under a new shorter jacket. I wanted to wear both items together tomorrow. I will try this briallant suggestion! Thanks , both of you. Sending love from Oz .
Brenda
May 10, 2018 at 8:45 amAs we can see here, it takes a village to figure out fashion! Hope that works for you when you try it, dear one! Lots of love from Sonoma, my friend.
Sandi Mcdougall
May 10, 2018 at 6:10 amLove the idea as nearly every top I purchase is too long & I can’t wait to try it. Plus, your writing always brings a smile to my face. (The bad boy in high school!). I had to read that part to Paul. Please never stop writing this blog as I enjoy it so much.
Brenda
May 10, 2018 at 8:44 amSandi, you put such a smile on my face! I think I need to tape your pic on my computer so when if my fingers feel like they have no tapping in them, you’ll be there inspiring me! I can really see this tip working for you. Let’s take a look when I see you in July!
Bobbi A Mouzon
May 10, 2018 at 6:57 amGood idea, but I am just crazy for the checks and dots and the ruffled sleeves pouring out!!!! Loved it with the necktie as well!!!!
Brenda
May 10, 2018 at 8:43 amThanks, Bobbi! That mix is about as wild as I get and I know for you it’s probably just a starting point! I love your adventurous spirit with fashion!
Cheryl Tucker
May 10, 2018 at 7:20 amAwe Brenda you write so cleverly! You had me smiling from line one. I am so glad you like this tip! I have been doing it forever because I have such a short waist all tops drown me. You did it beautifully! Love your blog and will give you a shout out on my Friday post which goes live at 5!
Peace!
Cheryl
Brenda
May 10, 2018 at 8:42 amWell, Cheryl, I think you’ve done us all a great service! Sounds like you’re not the only one with a short waist!! It was really fun to try your tip. I think forever this will be called the Cheryl Tucker tip! XX
Cheryl Tucker
May 10, 2018 at 7:47 amP.S. I am using your beautiful picture too, I hope it is okay.
Cheryl
http://www.northwestmountainliving.com
Brenda
May 10, 2018 at 8:42 amSound like big fun!!!
Anon
June 22, 2019 at 9:42 amAha! Here I am, long-waisted and thinking that this could be the solution for those times when I have a shirt and a jacket whose hems end at exactly the same place. Usually this is at the widest part of my hips. No, no. By shortening the shirt in this way, the eye registers asymmetry, which slims and lengthens. Brilliant! Isn’t it funny that being short-waisted and long-waisted could have the same solution?
I just can’t do that tuck that younger women like. It makes me look wider, and sloppy.
It’s a good thing to go back and read your past posts, Brenda. Thank you. And thank you, Cheryl Tucker.
Heidi
May 10, 2018 at 10:54 amHi Brenda!
This is a brilliant piece of fashion advice! I never thought of it, and I’m often drowning in my tops because I’m only 5’5”. Can’t wait to try this out!
Xo
Heidi
Angie
May 10, 2018 at 11:57 amClever all the way!
TJ Smith
May 10, 2018 at 2:55 pmTHANK YOU SO MUCH!!! Miracle cleverness!!!
Janet
May 10, 2018 at 9:27 pmI’ve been doing something similar by tucking part of my blouse into the waitsband of my jeans or pants. Then I just blouse it out a bit. It gives more definition and doesn’t look boxy anymore. Works for me and especially if your pants don’t have belt loops.
LauriePOP
May 11, 2018 at 5:57 amBrilliant! It really is cute! Sharing is caring, Cheryl!
Anne
May 12, 2018 at 3:37 pmI did fall for a bad boy in college. It didn’t turn out as well as your gingham blouse!
Your writing is a hoot! I still think about your dream about dressing Keith Urban and Adam Levine.