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A tummy tuck tip with jeans and a hidden belt

An unseen belt will keep your jeans up on Brenda Kinsel website

Revealing my belt trick to Bella

 

I have several favorite pairs of jeans that are not the new style of Mom jeans. They don’t come up to the waist; they hover just below my belly button.

The tough denim fabric can do wonders to help flatten a tummy but that’s only if the jeans stay up where they’re supposed to. Right there is where I have the problem: I have trouble keeping them up. They start to slide down my hips and the belly goes from smoother to popping out. Not fun. If left unattended, my jeans would come to rest somewhere near my pelvic bone.

I’ve often seen this with twenty-year-olds who aren’t worried about their tummies like women in their sixties are. Young’uns are often wearing crop tops so they just hook their thumbs into their belt loops and hoist their jeans back up … several times an hour.

But when you’re wearing multiple layers over your jeans, it’s a lot harder to do that hoisting with any kind of grace. Plus, at my age it seems like one of those things that shouldn’t be done in public. It’s not pretty; it’s not neat; it’s not tidy. It is annoying.

 

The belt solution to the tummy problem

I appreciate any tummy tucking I can get even if it’s temporary. My tummy tuck solution is to buy a narrow belt with a flat buckle, thread it through the belt loops of my below-the-belly-button jeans and belt it as tightly as possible. My jeans don’t stray.

I buy the cheap belts that no one will see but me (and my cat Bella as evidenced in the pictures above). Every year or two or three they’ll need to be replaced because they crack. I wouldn’t want my belt to snap off unexpectedly. I have shivers (not the good kind) just thinking about it!

I’m pretty sure I was about five minutes away from that actually happening to me so the other day when I had a few minutes to spare before meeting Russ for a matinee movie, I dashed into Macy’s and bought a two-pack of thin belts. I’d suggest navy or black in case you’re wearing a top in a slightly sheer fabric. This pink one just put a smile on my face. I had to have it.

 

Shift the buckle to one side or the other

If you’re wearing a tighter top than my tunic top above, slide the belt buckle over to one hip or the other so the belt is flattest in front. Who needs more bulk near the belly button? Not me!

This is one of my favorite “wear but don’t see” fashion tips. It allows me to to be modest and comfortable at the same time. No one can say, “Oh, there’s that lady who’s always pulling her pants up.” Or other things I haven’t imagined yet. I share this tip with my clients who use it too.

Do you have a need for a solution like this? It’s so simple, so not costly, so effective. I’d love to hear if this has worked for you. Share your experience, okay?

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20 Comments

  • Reply
    Jenn K
    August 1, 2016 at 5:26 am

    This is a great solution. For me, the narrow belt is not as comfortable as my flat, firm elastic belt I bought several years ago after seeing it on Wardrobe Oxygen. Beltaway isn’t as cheap, but it’s not expensive and is very comfortable and durable. http://beltaway.com/

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      Brenda
      August 1, 2016 at 8:04 am

      Jenn, I’m going to have to check beltaway out. Years back I had discovered the Invisi-belt. I bought one for myself and bought extras to give to my clients. I thought it was a miracle product. It was flat, plastic, and kept pants up. But the smell got to me. I thought it was a plastic-y smell that would go away but it never did. I’m sensitive to smells and it was too much. I’ll try this for sure. Thanks for the tip for me and our readers!!

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    Nancy
    August 1, 2016 at 10:40 am

    Oh, yes, I’ve done that! Another good way to address the problem, if you won’t be tucking your top in, is to sew elastic on the wrong side of the waistband on the back of your pants. If I’m feeling ambitious, I’ll insert it within the waistband. Honestly, I’m not usually that ambitious!

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      Brenda
      August 2, 2016 at 8:36 am

      Nancy, this is a great solution (and ambitious, but I like that!) to cure the gap in the back of pants. I think for my problem of the tummy, I have to get tougher on the front part to keep the pants tucking it in. I have a new client who has exactly the problem of being loose in the back so they fall down. I am definitely buying some of the solutions that have been shared and bringing them to her when I see he next month. Clearly I am not the only modest woman in the world who wants her pants to stay up. Thanks a bunch for this unique tip!!

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    Anne
    August 1, 2016 at 1:04 pm

    hi Brenda
    I’ve found 2 items that work well for me on my jeans under tunics or longer sweaters…the Beltaway Flat Buckle No Show Adjustable Belt – The Virtually Invisible Belt and the Hollywood Fashion Tape Black Adjustable Fit Hip Hugger; both can be purchased on Amazon but I’ve also seen them in a few stores. They are very discreet ways to keep your jeans fitting snug around you without showing and because they are elastic, they are adjustable and comfortable.

    • Reply
      Brenda
      August 2, 2016 at 8:33 am

      Thanks, Anne! Let me guess, do you have a small waist? I can see two reasons to wear belts like this and one would be the pants are just way too big at the waist compared to the tips or others, like me, who are wearing lowering cut pants and they are sliding down and the belly is left pooching out. I’m just thinking out loud about this. One product may work better depending on your need. I have some Googling to do!! Thank you so much for sharing what’s worked for you! Xx

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    Barb
    August 1, 2016 at 4:55 pm

    I have three of these–navy, black, and white–comfy, adjustable, and invisible! https://www.amazon.com/Beltaway²-BUCKLE–Adjustable-Belt-Black/dp/B00SXA4T42/ref=sr_1_2?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1470095589&sr=1-2&nodeID=2474936011&keywords=elastic+belt

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      Brenda
      August 2, 2016 at 8:29 am

      Wow, Barb! And no complaints at all? Just looked them up and they seem well constructed. It says they are stretchy. Do you find yourself having to adjust them while you wear them? This seems like a great product! Thanks so much for setting us up for a great solution!

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        Barb
        August 3, 2016 at 4:31 pm

        Not a complaint, Brenda. I don’t find myself fussing with them at all. I started with the navy and wore it a few times before I went for the black, and then this spring, the white one. And they are easily adjustable for pants that fit differently–mid rise, high rise, etc.

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    Pat
    August 2, 2016 at 6:18 am

    Thank you. Thank you, Brenda, and lovely readers! I can purchase a well fitting pair of pants and within a short period of time, stretch! A screen shot of these tips will help me find what I need.

    Women supporting women are the best!
    A faithful fan,
    Pat

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      Brenda
      August 2, 2016 at 8:42 am

      Women supporting women indeed! I love all these suggestions. I’m always fascinated by the pieces under our clothes that do the work so the outside image is looking tip top!
      Thanks for being one of the tribe of women supporting women, Pat.
      Yours faithfully,
      Brenda

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    Paula
    August 2, 2016 at 5:41 pm

    Good tip Brenda! I hadn’t thought about turning the buckle off front and center.

    • Reply
      Brenda
      August 2, 2016 at 5:45 pm

      It works like a charm, Paula!

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    Aless
    August 2, 2016 at 8:23 pm

    Brenda- I have the stretchy belt (forget the brand, but I bought it online) and a significantly large tummy….I LOVE wearing jeans too! I found the stretchy belt fairly useless- too much re-adjusting. What I do (because all of my tops are worn OUT) is to use a good, wide, leather belt with a flattish buckle, moved to the side as you suggest. Where there could/should! be another belt loop, next to the outside waist stud, I have fitted a baby’s diaper pin (the big, locking type) on the waistband, to make another ‘loop’. This keeps the belt in a straight line, not allowing it to ride above the waistband. Occasionally I’ll have to do a discreet hoist-up, but not often. As I said, my tummy is big, so I expect a few slippages!!

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    laura
    April 6, 2018 at 1:37 pm

    I like this the best
    Hollywood Fashion Secrets Hollywood Hip Hugger

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    Trish
    October 8, 2018 at 3:01 pm

    Belt or not, sometimes when I sit down, the zipper pops open. That’s none too graceful a fix, either, when sitting in public. So I put a keychain ring on all my pant zippers, just in case. Just put it thru the little hole on your zipper pull, pull up your zipper, and loop it over your button before you button up your jeans! Between my stretchy belt and my keychain rings, I am actually allowed out in public without a fear of being arrested for exposing myself!

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    Cindy hattersley
    November 4, 2018 at 4:18 pm

    I never thought of this! What a fabulous idea. I have the same problem because I have a big rump and a small waist! Genius!!

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      Brenda
      November 6, 2018 at 4:23 pm

      Not so sure about genius but I did have a chuckle at the word rump. I haven’t heard that in a long time. You’re just too cute!

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    Cindy Sullivan
    March 14, 2020 at 4:14 am

    Hi! A little late to the convo, but… this belt is intended for the “gap” in the back of jeans, but may be able to be used in the manner of this article. “No Buckle Belt”…kinda cool…on Amazon…

    • Reply
      Brenda
      March 22, 2020 at 7:03 pm

      Thanks, Cindy!

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