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How a Vision Board Can Influence Clothes Shopping

For a year I stared at a leopard print coat on a vision board before I got the nerve to buy one

 

I am finding something so fascinating, and I can’t wait to share it with you! It involves vision boards and shopping.

Something like this happened to me about fifteen years ago that connected vision boards to shopping. See that leopard print coat I’m wearing? I purchased it 14 years ago. A year prior to that I’d seen a picture of a similar one in a magazine. I was making a vision board and cut it out and pasted it to cardboard. I really couldn’t imagine wearing a coat like that but it attracted me for some reason.

Over the next year, I must have looked at that paper image a hundred times. Then one day I was shopping with my friend Marj when I saw it in Nordstrom in Walnut Creek. It was kind of spooky! There it was on the rack. Was it meant to be mine? I still didn’t see myself as a leopard print person, but I took a courage pill and purchased it. It’s been a staple in my wardrobe ever since.

 

There’s energy in vision boards

Near the beginning of the year (but sometimes later) I make vision boards. With an open mind, I go through magazines and rip out images or phrases that call to me. The idea is to arrange and glue these loved or aspirational images onto poster board and put it where you can see it.

(Here’s one person’s blog post about creating vision boards to help you actualize your desires.)

 

I like to make small mini-vision boards

I like to make multiple “boards” on black card stock paper in 8-1/2″ by 11″ sheets. I get overwhelmed by a big board full of images. I need to break things down into smaller segments. This way I can slide each board inside plastic sleeve protectors and keep them in a three-ring binder and look at them that way.

Sometimes the images and words group themselves together under themes: love life, work life, family life, spiritual life. And sometimes they just arrange themselves in unexplainable ways. Sometimes I remove one board from the binder, prop it into a frame and put it on my writing table. It could contain a message I need to take in repeatedly. Vision boards soothed my sorrowful heart in the aftermath of grief and loss when Mom died four years ago.

 

Sharing three of this year’s boards with you.

Here are three of my 8-1/2″ by 11″ mini vision boards.

Vision Board #1:

 

Vision Board #1

 

Once you’ve collected images, it’s important to look at them and listen to what they may be trying to convey.

 

What I love about Board #1:

  1. I’m crazy for that trench coat as it’s a classic shape, but the fabric pattern is so fun! I love the colors. It stretches me in that I often favor solid pieces in neutral colors. This is a playful print in multi-colors. I could never afford to actually buy this piece (it’s $2,680), but it makes me happy to look at.
  2. I really am into reusing and restyling things so I love that “motto” about recycling and reusing.
  3. I like “sleek style” and “simply chic” and wouldn’t mind if people described me like that from time to time.
  4. I’m over 60! I’ve entered my charming years!
  5. The colors and pattern in the bedding call to me as does the white background. It’s happy and bright.

 

Next up, Vision Board #2

 

Vision Board #2

 

What I love about Board #2

  1. It’s so happy!
  2. It’s so bright!
  3. It’s so fun!
  4. I proclaim this to be the year I am in full bloom. I’m open to discovering what that is. I think it’s about enjoying relationships; perhaps it relates to the fact that I’m becoming a grandmother and about to embrace a new role in my life. I’m open to new opportunities and figure I’ll recognize them when I see them.

Vision Board #3:

 

Vision Board #3

 

What I love about Board #3

  1. It’s just lovely. Those candlesticks and lit candles feel soothing. I love the luster on that open vessel. I’m crazy for the sweet flowers that ring the candles and the rim of the pot. It’s sophisticated pleasure.
  2. I am interested in listening to the stirrings of my heart. Anything I create I want it to be created with love.
  3. The fish wallpaper is delightful and quirky. It represents nature to me and how there’s so much variety in life.
  4. “Local Flavor” speaks to me. I want to enjoy more and more of the local flavor of Sonoma and Wine Country.
  5. Paris? Well, I got an urge to go to Paris this year! No, I’ve never been there so it’s about time, right?
  6. That crystal object glistens and beckons. It suggests possibilities and light.

 

Sonoma shopping

Marj and Mariann shopping at Artifax in Sonoma

Now to a recent shopping trip

So tuck the image of those vision boards away for a minute. We’re going to come back to them real soon, but I need to tell you about a shopping trip with my friends and colleagues, Marj and Mariann. We meet every month and alternate meeting places. This month we were in Sonoma.

One thing we do from time to time is shop together! Mariann and Marj have favorite places in Sonoma and I tag along. It’s funny how it takes friends coming to visit you to see what’s in your own neighborhood!

I bought two jackets at Artifax Art-to-Wear Women’s Clothing Boutique on the Square in Sonoma. (Truth is, we all bought something in this store!)

 

A classically shaped jacket that looks handpainted

So take a look at this jacket. I saw it in the window and was attracted to it immediately. I circled it but never tried it on. Being with my friends meant commenting on pieces that they picked up, encouraging them to try things on, etc. You know how it goes. When I wandered back over to where this jacket hung in the store, I slipped it on. Marj saw me out of the corner of her eye and said, “That is so you!”

 

Artistic jacket

Painterly linen jacket

 

I wasn’t sure about it right away, but it felt fabulous. These straight lines are great for my shape. I immediately thought about how I could wear it in the summer with white jeans and a T-shirt. It looked creative, made me happy, and came from a Danish designer. I have to admit to being attracted to anything Scandinavian because…well, it’s my heritage—what can I say!

Having it on makes me feel like a woman who’s blooming into her 60-year-old charming self.

Now, what does this remind me of? Hmm…perhaps a classic shape with an artisan touch? Where have I seen that before? Maybe a detail in Board #1?

 

Similar jackets

Jackets that share traits

 

The colors make me feel joyous, sort of like a celebratory scene from my Board #2. How about that?

 

Pre-shopping with vision boards

Shopping insight comes from collages

 

I’m a prudent shopper so getting reinforcement from my vision mini-boards makes it a lot easier to say YES to the piece, especially if it’s different from something I’ve worn before.

 

But what about Board #3? How does that figure in?

Well, let me show you the other jacket I purchased.

It’s a kimono style jacket with fabric created using the ancient Japanese Shibori method. It’s such a cool way of creating pattern in fabrics. I photographed it outside to try to show you the true color and have only slightly succeeded. The color is called Capers which is right on.

 

Kimono

My capers kimono

 

Kimono closeup

Shibori pattern closeup

 

 

My friends loved it on me. It’s artistic, super comfortable, and when I walk with it on, I glide.

It’s really different than anything I’ve purchased. Now, where have I seen something like this? I looked at the mini-board I made (#3) and saw the very quality of the picture with the candles, candlesticks, and open vessel. It’s sophisticated pleasure!

 

shopping from vision boards

Sophisticated pleasure

 

Can you see how the vision boards led me to these two jackets? Wait, Marj and Mariann led me to the store but these pieces passed the shopping YES test through the help of the vision boards.

I can’t wait to finish styling these pieces so I can show you the finished outfits. In the meantime, I want to hear from you. Have you mentally pre-shopped like this by first creating collages of things you love? Has this worked for you? Does it intrigue you enough to want to do it again? Do share your thoughts and experiences!

XO

 

 

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27 Comments

  • Reply
    Diane B
    March 21, 2019 at 5:11 am

    Great post Brenda. I do appreciate your thought process. I realized as I was reading this that I did that 2 years ago while looking for a winter coat. I had numerous pictures cut out of the coat style and shape that I wanted and left them where I could see them. When I came across the coat while shopping for something else, I just knew I had to try it on…. home it came. I am in love with the first coat you purchased! Simply stunning, and something I would love to wear as well. I am thinking that I should start the inspiration boards again to get on track. Thanks for the inspiration. P.s. you have also inspired me to check out a great pair of burgundy glasses frames.

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      Brenda
      March 21, 2019 at 12:42 pm

      Fun to hear this, Diane. This is the first time that I saw images of things that aren’t clothes that ended up relating to clothes I chose! I need to do what you do about cutting out images of clothes and jewelry specifically. I used to do that every year and put them in my style binder (different from my vision boards) and it’s always beneficial! Thanks for the reminder!

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    Elena
    March 21, 2019 at 6:36 am

    For me, this was your best post ever. The dining room scene in board #2 even brought tears to my eyes and is still affecting me as I write this. I wonder if it has to do with the sheer beauty of it or if actually because it reminds me of my mother who loved to set a beautiful table. Thanks, Brenda, for a wonderful post, I’m going to save it and do some more reflecting later.

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      Brenda
      March 21, 2019 at 12:44 pm

      Wow, Elena, I’m so moved by the fact that you were moved! I’m guessing that it’s helping you remember your mother. Wish I was there to hand you tissues and to hear stories about her!

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    Janine Welsh
    March 21, 2019 at 7:04 am

    Loved this post. I have never done a physical vision board (but I am going to now). I look at pictures and tuck them in my head and then go on the hunt. I have pieces that just spoke to me and remain in my “line up” for many years. From time to time I love to update the outfit giving the piece a brand new life. Those pieces are like special friends!

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      Brenda
      March 21, 2019 at 12:45 pm

      It’s true about “special friends”. I love how the overall feel or qualities I want in my life spilled over to clothes without that being the intention. Have fun with your vision board! They always reveal interesting things!

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    Linda B
    March 21, 2019 at 7:27 am

    I love those jackets, and everything in your story of how you acquired them. I did play with vision boards a wee bit, years ago. Pinterest replaced that as a way for me to collect images, sort of. I have so little free time/energy beyond work these days that pinning is more efficient, it seems!

    But the light is at the end of the tunnel–at the end of May I retire and right away, more or less, I will become a grandmother. I expect to reshape my life very fully, and perhaps making mood boards will help that process! In the meantime, one of my survival strategies for this last few hard months is intensifying the daily effort I put into creative dressing. At least I can do that. . .

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      Brenda
      March 21, 2019 at 12:48 pm

      Wow, you give me chills! “The daily effort I put into creating dressing” is helping you through the most difficult times. I have used that through difficult times as well. I don’t have that in work, but I do have that in life–health stuff, family, loss. It always helps me when I’m in a situation that I feel powerless to change. Changing clothes and looking my best is my way of coping. Can’t wait to talk more after your retirement day and the day the baby is here!

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    Rebecca
    March 21, 2019 at 8:17 am

    I have thought about doing an inspiration board but was overwhelmed by thinking about the large size of it. Well you have solved that by beautifully demonstrating page size ones that can easily be saved and referenced. I love both jackets and can’t wait to see how you will style them.

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      Brenda
      March 21, 2019 at 12:48 pm

      I’m glad the smaller size makes it more possible. That made a big difference for me. Can’t wait to hear more about your process!

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    Mary Ann Pickett
    March 21, 2019 at 8:56 am

    LOVE the leopard coat on you! I use vision/mood boards for my clients for their interiors so they can see how the elements come together…makes sense for fashion, too.

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      Brenda
      March 21, 2019 at 12:50 pm

      “That old thing?” Just had to say that about the leopard coat when I never actually say things like that out loud. I’m amazed that the leopard coat still as loved today as the first time I saw it all those years ago. I’d love to see some of the mood boards you make for clients. I bet they’re awesome!

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    LA CONTESSA
    March 21, 2019 at 9:35 am

    Guess where I’ll be MONDAY!
    AT ARTIFACT with Two friends than Lunching on The SQUARE!
    They carry MY CAPUTI JEWELS!!!!!
    SO, Funny I saw your photo of the two friends and thought WHAT SHOP IS THIS?!!!!
    Then I read WHERE!!!AND LAUGHED OUT LOUD!!!
    YOUR purchases are SPOT ON!
    LOVE THE LEOPARD COAT?
    VINTAGE?
    XX

    • Reply
      Brenda
      March 21, 2019 at 12:56 pm

      Oh my gosh! Amazing! Yes, I was tempted by a Caputi necklace when I was there. I got the leopard coat 14 years ago. Is that long enough that it makes it vintage? Oh, you’ll have tons of fun, I’m sure! Wish I could be a fly on the wall! Hugs to you, my friend!

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    sophia montgomery
    March 21, 2019 at 9:46 am

    I have a binder with my mag cut outs and it helps me refresh on how to wear a scarf, combine prints, etc. Thank you for sharing yours!!

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      Brenda
      March 21, 2019 at 12:56 pm

      That’s so cool!!! I need to refresh my style binder. I think I want to look at it in a broader way after reading your comment. Thanks!

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    Cherry Cooke
    March 21, 2019 at 10:45 am

    i keep cuttings in a journal

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      Brenda
      March 21, 2019 at 12:57 pm

      What fun to look at your journal!

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    Connie
    March 21, 2019 at 12:22 pm

    Congratulations on becoming a grandmother! You are in for an amazing ride! Every time I visit my little granddaughter, I go with a full heart but come home with it even fuller. How can that happen? She is such a beautiful gift and I am so very blessed. That little dimpled smile can carry me through the roughest of days. Congratulations! (Nice jackets, too!)

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      Brenda
      March 21, 2019 at 12:58 pm

      Wow, Connie, I still can’t quite imagine what it’ll be like but I’ll know around Mother’s Day! Sometimes I think that I can’t bear another moment of not meeting her in person. But of course, I can and I will. Pretty soon I’ll know what you’re talking about!

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    Elaine @ Following Augustine
    March 21, 2019 at 9:53 pm

    So many things to love about this post! Becoming a grandmother… congratulations! It’s such a wonderful time of life. Paris! I’ve never been either, but I’m going in May and I’m beside myself with excitement! Shopping with friends… such fun! I haven’t tried making vision boards, but I’ve recently started collecting images on Pinterest that have really helped me define my style.

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    Trinnie q
    March 21, 2019 at 10:46 pm

    Ohh Brenda and all who commented, I found this post very moving also. I also love all those coats, the fabrics, the creativeness, the chic ness, of each of them. Congratulations on impending Grandmotherhood!, The beautiful circle of life goes on.! Well , mood boards and creative cards of inspiration, what wonderful ideas. I am hoping to find a creative, colourful, practical, and intriguing winter jacket/ coat, For this winter, and a cozy cashmere cardigan. I will have to start gathering ideas and photos, pictures. Thanks to this beautiful community for your inspiration. Sending love from Oz oh, and one day , I will go to Paris x

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    Elaine
    March 22, 2019 at 12:51 pm

    You’ve inspired me to start collaging again, Brenda! I’m more of a screen than a paper-and-glue person, so I’ll be doing this with a software program. I found a good (and inexpensive) one last night after reading your post, and I’ve been having a ball pulling images from the Internet and “pasting” them on to digital vision boards. This will be particularly useful after next week, when our mutual friend M.G. does my color analysis and I discover which colors are my new best friends. 🙂

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    vicki Maiorano
    March 22, 2019 at 3:28 pm

    Great ideas. I don’t buy magazines and won’t start now. I’ll need to work out how to do electronically.

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    Sandi
    March 23, 2019 at 6:07 am

    I have always had a binder full of ideas and never thought of it as a vision board until today. Thank you. And of course, I am so, so jealous you will be a grandma around Mother’s Day. Congrats to your family. Hope to see you soon??????

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    Sandra Sallin - Apart From My Art
    March 23, 2019 at 11:20 pm

    Could you please shop for me? Oh, I forgot, that’s exactly what you do. Love your jackets and must fine that store. Perfect for me, Love your vision boards I just know I’m not disciplined enough to do it. But I love yours. It is a great idea, especially for you.

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    Kim In Minnesota
    March 24, 2019 at 6:34 am

    Wow, that is uncanny! I kept this post in mind when I attended a vision board making session yesterday. Can’t wait to see what this one inspires!

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