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Why it’s so important to nail the travel outfit when you fly

 

Creating a travel outfit

Me feel hassled about a canceled flight? Not in my well planned travel outfit!

 

I spend a fair amount of time thinking about what I’m going to wear on my travel day. I probably give my travel outfit more thought than the other outfits I prepare. Why? I want to get it right because travel can be so unpredictable—like it was over a week ago. Erin and I were meeting at the airport and catching a flight to Burbank, CA where we’d Uber it to our client’s house in the Hollywood Hills. We were spending a week together creating outfits for her busy life. We’d done the same thing three years ago, but it was time for an update!

On the morning of my flight, I got up, slipped into my well-planned, comfortable outfit and could easily visualize myself at the other end, arriving at 3 p.m. We were starting work the next day so this afternoon arrival would give us plenty of time to chill out and have fun in the neighborhood that afternoon and evening.

 

Airport outfit

A change of plans at the airport

 

A smart travel outfit makes you look cool when you’re actually sweating

The only outfit I plan out ahead of time is my travel outfit. It feels so good to be relaxed and “in control” of something before heading out on a trip.

Russ drove me 35 minutes to an Airporter terminal in Marin. It was Saturday morning and there was no traffic. What joy!

I kissed him goodbye, boarded the bus, and then the not-in-control part began. It was pouring down rain and the bus driver had gotten word that the freeway was closed ahead.

Accident. All lanes closed. We’d have to go through Sausalito and wind through its narrow streets to get to the Golden Gate Bridge. He gave us the plan, but then the driver asked, “Does anyone know the way?” Oh boy.

If any of you have visited Sausalito you know how narrow the streets are through town. He managed to take the twists and turns up the back way to the beginning of the Golden Gate Bridge. We crossed the bridge and got on to 19th Avenue and gosh, it looked like I was going to make my flight. Woohoo!

And then the text came in. “Your flight has been canceled.” Holy moly.

Thank goodness I was wearing my put together outfit. I was ready to face the new plan.

 

 

Wearing a trench on travel day

New flight, new boarding pass, new adventures

 

I got to the airport and hooked up with Erin. We were rerouted to LAX and would take off in about three hours.

My comfortable outfit was perfect for a hike from one terminal to another. We left our Southwest Airlines Terminal and headed over to the International Terminal where we decided the people watching and restaurants would be better. The famous SF restaurant, Tartine, had gone into the International Terminal. We went through the TSA lines at the International Terminal, had lunch and gin fizzes (Erin’s idea) at Tartine with plenty of time to head back through security a third time to Southwest Airlines.

 

The making of a comfortable travel outfit

I’d been enjoying wearing my cropped full-leg Eileen Fisher wool pants that week, and I wanted to keep wearing them. Often I’m in jeans or a knit pant for flying but I wanted to wear these full pants. They have an elastic waist and they’re not tight anywhere. I really wanted to wear it my favorite way which is with a mock turtle sweater with a mix of textures, but if I got hot on the flight, I’d suffer. A turtleneck really holds the heat in.

 

Wearing my favorite Eileen Fisher pants

How I wore these pants a few days before our trip

 

Here’s the soft draped full pant. It has pockets!

 

Eileen Fisher pants

Eileen Fisher wool pants with pockets

 

Next up, the layers. I went with my soft—it’s been washed a hundred times—black and white striped tee as my first layer.

 

Black and white tee

Tried and true striped tee

 

My next layer was a soft knit, textured long-sleeved Margery top that came from Artful Home. It has a loose cowlneck. I love the ease.

 

Textured dotted top

Textured knit top from Artful Home

 

Mixing stripes with polka dots is so entertaining to me. When you’re traveling by air, you might as well be entertained from the start! You never know what’s going to happen so wear something that makes you happy—that’s what I always say.

 

Fun outfit on travel day

Having some print mixing fun on travel day

 

I chose this lightweight black and white scarf. It’s in a hangman’s knot. It keeps my neck from getting chilled. When I get hot or need more air, I take it off and it goes into my purse.

 

Bringing a scarf on a flight

Scarf goes on for warmth or off for a little air

 

LA was in for several days of stormy weather so naturally, I brought my raincoat with a quilted liner.

 

Wearing a trench in the LA showers

I needed my trench with the quilted lining

 

Once we got to our place, we dumped our suitcases and headed out to dinner. No need to change clothes; I was still happy in my travel outfit. A place called Farmhouse sounded great and it was perfect! They had the best rhubarb cake dessert. We couldn’t stop thinking about it.

The work week went well. I wore the pants for two more days.

I wore them to work on Monday.

 

Harper jacket and Eileen Fisher pants

Eileen Fisher pants go to work in LA

 

And I wore them on Wednesday afternoon when I met my friend and blogger, Susan Blakey, from Une Femme d’un Certain Age. We did some shopping at the Westfield Century City Mall—a great mall!

I still hadn’t tired of wearing these pants. Besides, it seemed we had dessert at every meal so that elastic waistband came in handy!

 

Shopping Nordstrom in LA

Me and my buddy Susan go trend spotting in Nordstrom

 

By the way, I’ve been wearing my classic L.K. Bennett riding boots the whole time. They come to the knee. I haven’t worn them much this winter, but they sure got a workout last week!

 

Susan Blakey and Brenda Kinsel in LA

After the showers came the sunshine, but it was still cold!

 

Then on Saturday morning, I put on my same travel outfit. I always wear the same outfit coming and going. It’s one less thing to think about.

Our Uber driver played jazz on the radio and drove us down Sunset Boulevard all the way to the freeway. The houses, the landscaped lawns, the wide porches—oh my! The sun was shining, there were big puffy white clouds in the sky. I missed LA already.

 

Heading home with less airline drama

Nothing much happened at the airport. Everything was on time. We headed to our gate and got ready to board with our fellow Group D passengers.

I was in front of a woman carrying three red roses, slightly wilted. I said, “Those roses must have a story to tell.”

She said, “We buried my father on Friday and these were on his casket. He’d gotten sick and had an operation but never really recovered from it. ”

“I’m so sorry. I’ve lost a parent. I know a little bit about what you’re going through,” I said.

“I was telling my daughter here how it comes in waves,” she said. “I’ll be going along and it just hits me and I’m in tears.”

“Yes, I know. It just smacks you in the face when you least expect it,” I said.

“I’m doing pretty well, but when a kind person like you talks to me like this, I get teary again,” she said.

“I’m getting teary too,” I said.

I touched her face with love and said, “It’s a journey.”

 

Brenda's travel outfit

Coming to the end of the trip in my same travel outfit

 

Having just talked about grief here on the blog and having read your comments, I felt like my heart was reaching out to hers with the full support of this community. When you’ve experienced grief, it’s not hard to be with someone who is going through it. It might have been nice to have been seated together. I’d have just listened.

 

Dress up in a put together outfit for flying

Wear something you love when you fly

 

So that’s it, folks. I thought of you a lot in LA. And now I’m happy to be home, here in my office, sharing fashion stories with you.

You’ve probably got a travel story to share! How do you choose what you’re wearing when you travel? Can’t wait to hear from you!

XO

 

 

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41 Comments

  • Reply
    Cara
    February 12, 2019 at 5:09 am

    Great outfit, Brenda! In the first few pictures the pants looked like a skirt.
    I’m sure your words to, and empathy with, the woman of the roses were very much appreciated.

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 4:11 pm

      Yes, it’s hard to take pics of those pants because they do look like a skirt from many angles! I bet you’d have spoken to her too, Cara. I had no idea of course that she’d tell me what she did but I was honored to be there with ears to hear her.

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    Eileen
    February 12, 2019 at 6:22 am

    Where did you get the trench with quilted liner?

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 4:09 pm

      From Nordstrom, on sale, about 12 years ago. It’s a stalwart piece!

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    jodie filogomo
    February 12, 2019 at 6:27 am

    You are such a good person to listen for that woman in her grief, Brenda. It’s the hard part of life, yet we all go through it some way or another.
    As for traveling, I do about the same thing. I wear the same thing to and from the airport (with a change of the top underneath)!!
    OXOX
    Jodie
    http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 4:09 pm

      Always fun to hear from you, Jodie! And good to hear your travel plan! Lots of love, BK

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    Wendy
    February 12, 2019 at 6:47 am

    I so look forward to your email fall into my in box Brenda. To be honest I am always at a loss to know what to wear when I travel, I know I want comfy but putting comfy together and looking so well put together (as you do) is an art, and I’m just having a hard time doing that at the moment. I’m going to keep reading your inspirational words of wisdom and working on it, (and sorting my wardrobe out!!). Looking forward to your next ‘words of wisdom’ Brenda, BIG thanks.

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 4:08 pm

      Wendy, you’re melting my heart! I will continue to do my best to fill your email inbox! Also, put travel wardrobe in the search box (or travel tips) of the blog and several posts should pop up. Hope that helps! Also, my friend Susan from http://unefemme.net devotes many, many posts on travel packing. Check her out, she’s great!

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    Sharon
    February 12, 2019 at 6:56 am

    Hi Brenda, thanks for the travel tips. We are going to Paris at the end of April and I’m desperate to pack correctly and not overpack. I love your travel outfit and will definitely keep in mind..
    Your kind words to the fellow traveler meant so much I’m sure…yes grief does come in waves…

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 4:05 pm

      Sharon, you understand grief too! I have travel packing wardrobe charts and instructions on my website. Just go to Resources and then checklists and charts. I would plan out every outfit! Or for my clients I often take one travel wardrobe chart and make day outfits on it and then take another one for nighttime outfits. It really does help! I hope you have a great time!

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    Judy
    February 12, 2019 at 7:41 am

    Brenda, I just love your blog. What a dear person you are. Your warmth oozes through my laptop screen. And how lucky are you and your daughter to get to work together! Love the travel outfit. I might have to copy it exactly for our next adventure. 🙂

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 4:02 pm

      Thanks for your kind words! Yes, I do feel really lucky! We have a good time working together. Please, copy away!

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    Medora Monigold
    February 12, 2019 at 8:02 am

    Great step by step guidance! Thank you.

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 4:01 pm

      You’re welcome, Medora!

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    Nikita
    February 12, 2019 at 8:13 am

    Hi Brenda,
    What about the burgundy top, vest, and accessories?! Those were my favorite pieces and you didn’t mention them!

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 4:01 pm

      You’re right! I only talked about the travel pants. The burgundy sweater is by J.Crew (years old) and the burgundy cardigan is this year by Halogen from Nordstrom. The necklace is by Sol Sisters. I’ve written about that one a lot! You can put Sol Sisters in the search bar of the blog and learn more about the necklace.

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    Linda Ebright
    February 12, 2019 at 9:10 am

    Glad to know I’m not the only one who obsesses about a travel outfit. I always wear the same thing coming and going. It can be tricky when your destination climate is quite different from home. And I always take a scarf for warmth on the plane (and socks!). I never travel in jeans, just not comfy enough, especially for international travel. Knits are the key! I try to avoid tennis shoes (clunky), altho sometimes I choose black athletic gear with tennis shoes. I ALWAYS do carry on, even international. A few years ago I was stuck in airport with delayed flight and got phone call that my mom’s condition had worsened. I felt so helpless stranded there. I was the sad lady sniffling/blubbering in the waiting room. A nice lady came and chatted with me and it felt so good to tell someone what was happening. So kudos to you for reaching out!

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 3:56 pm

      Linda, I love your travel tips and I’m really moved by the lady who reached out to you. How comforting that must have been! I wish someone had done that for me when I was flying home to my mother’s death bed hoping to make it in time. The person at the ticket desk was so uninterested when she told us that the plane was there but they couldn’t find a pilot. She was nonchalant and I was desperate. I so wish I could have spoken to someone compassionate at that moment.

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    Nancy
    February 12, 2019 at 9:20 am

    Also being a woman of a certain age, I have always loved that gaucho and boot look! I bet it would look just as fabulous with a pair of booties or even dark tights and loafers or ballet flats, love your posts and your style!

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 3:45 pm

      Thanks, Nancy. So far I haven’t been able to work out a shoe option that I like as much as these boots. If the pant was longer, it would be easier for me. Thanks for your kind words!

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    Karin Beamer
    February 12, 2019 at 9:54 am

    Brenda,
    I am an ex stewardess, flight attendant, and I can tell you, the clothing worn on flights is disgraceful. It is sloppy and sometimes a lot more is hanging out than in. We flight attendants give more care and attention to a well dressed person. When I flew as a flight attendant, using a free voucher, it was mandated that we had to be in professional dress, I was often placed in first class if a seat was available. When my husband and I fly we still do the same, it has its perks. Please folks keep in mind this philosophy…. well dressed makes a good impression and you will never get a chance to make a first impression again.

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 3:44 pm

      I am bowing down to you, Karin! Yes, yes, triple yes! I just can’t dress in a sloppy way on a plane. I have clients who follow your philosophy as well and have been upgraded because they look like they care. I’m so glad you shared your advice!

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    Elaine @ Following Augustine
    February 12, 2019 at 10:11 am

    How fun to see two of my favourite bloggers together!

    Thank you for being so kind to the woman with the roses. Sadly, people are often so uncomfortable with another person’s grief that they hardly acknowledge it let alone say anything truly comforting. I’m sure you made a difference to her day.

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    Deanne
    February 12, 2019 at 10:39 am

    Nice travel outfit! I too wear the same thing on both flights, provided I havn’t spilled anything! I am usually going from one kind of weather, usually winter in MN, to summer temps in FL. I make sure my travel putfit has a layer I can remove when I arrive, something that can double as a lightweight coat when I come back to winter.

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 3:42 pm

      That’s so smart, Deanne.

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    Marge
    February 12, 2019 at 11:03 am

    I admired the outfit on Instagram. I was traveling myself last week. And then you surprised me with the rest of your post. Thank you. This was a pleasure to read.

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 3:41 pm

      Thanks, Marge!

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    Barbara Kraus
    February 12, 2019 at 12:28 pm

    How wonderful that you two were standing in line together and that you opened up the space for her to speak/share.

    I tend to be warm on flights and always have layers, a neck scarf, etc. However, my last flight was so cold but I didn’t realize it until after takeoff. I was wearing a shirt, sweater, polar fleece and warm scarf, but that wasn’t enough. My coat was in the overhead compartment and the fasten seatbelt sign never went off. Was I cold!

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 3:40 pm

      I hate when that happens! I often pack gloves and a warm knit cap to help me stay warm as well.

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    Ruth
    February 12, 2019 at 1:55 pm

    We just got back from a two week vacay in Palm Springs and my travel outfit was very similar to yours. Unfortunately coming home my suitcase was a tad overweight so ended up wearing a few more layers home then planned. Lol.

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      Brenda
      February 12, 2019 at 3:35 pm

      Ruth, I’ve avoided that somehow! I’d love to have seen that outfit!

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    LA CONTESSA
    February 12, 2019 at 3:35 pm

    Like you I think of COLD or HOT situations……..always a scarf and a sweatshirt material Coat that can PLAY BLANKET since they do not give those out anymore on Domestic Flights!ON international flights always heavy socks for my feet…….I get rid of the shoes immediately!
    SUSAN what happened to YOU a week ago SATURDAY???!!!!!
    I thought you were coming to see me at BOOK SOUP!
    YOU two look GREAT!What FUN you must of had……………
    BIG STORM TONIGHT!!!!!!!CATEGORY 4 my PILATES instructor had said!!!
    YIKES………XX

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      Susan B.
      February 12, 2019 at 4:46 pm

      I wanted to come, but we had our son with us for the weekend unexpectedly, so I had to stay home and “tag team” with le Monsieur. I’m so sorry I missed it!!

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    Susan B.
    February 12, 2019 at 4:41 pm

    I love your travel outfit. It was so great to spend time with you; I’m glad we could arrange it! And I was admiring those pants; they looked great with the boots.

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    Jean
    February 12, 2019 at 6:16 pm

    Brenda, I can’t remember the last time that I traveled without a pair of Eileen Fisher pants. They are the best! It is really great to see you wear and respect clothing that has a history in your closet. So often people think that you need a whole new wardrobe for a trip. Thanks for showing that it is always best to shop in your own closet first.

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    Maryann
    February 12, 2019 at 7:28 pm

    You look wonderful, as always. I live in Australia so when I travel I need to think of an outfit that will be worn, slept in (if I am lucky!) then is presentable to wonder around in until I can get into my hotel, around 30 to 35 hours of wear. Sometimes it works but despite my best efforts not always.

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    Eileen
    February 13, 2019 at 7:30 am

    What is the trench coat brand? Thanks!

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    Vicki
    February 13, 2019 at 8:13 am

    I love your travel outfit! Very chic, and comfy. That bag you’re carrying with the blue handles….love it! Can you tell who makes it?

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    Jacie Bond
    February 13, 2019 at 4:36 pm

    Thanks for the “Aha” moment about wearing the same outfit on both travel day. I so value all your insights. You look fabulous – a goal for all of us as we travel. The three rose story resonated deep in my heart. I was teaching 41 Grade Eights in 1979- some a challenge but most pure joy, fun with strong desire to learn. My husband got transferred and I had to resign. My last day, when the halls were empty, I was slowly walking down the hall, bringing back up so many awesome memories when I hear my name called. I turned to see three Grade Eight boys from my class, each with a gorgeous long -stemmed red rose in his hand. One looked 18, another looked 12 and the third was average in size. They all thrust their rosses into my hands and I gave them a big hug. I cried as I went to pick up my sons, ages 6 and 9, cried as we got on the plane, cried as we got to the hotel. Those three boys are forever in my heart and I feel so blessed having them there. Today I send them another warm hug from my much older self, now going to be 75, but the memory is as vivid as ever.Two different stories based on three red roses. To the woman who lost her father, I also send a hug. So many are caring and supporting you. P.S I am still processissing your grief nausea, Brenda – how true.
    Jacie

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    Laurice Gilbert
    February 14, 2019 at 11:16 am

    My international travel is nearly always from southern hemisphere winter into northern hemisphere summer. (I deliberately time it that way as a break from the cold and wet.) So my carry-on contains a complete change of clothing for when I get there. I remember the first time I visited the USA – I had to shed layers in the Ladies’ at LAX just to breathe! Conversely, I have to have my winter clothes ready when I come back. The one item I am never without, whether at home or travelling, is a sarong I bought in London, England, in 1996. It has served many purposes over the decades – blanket, towel, scarf, shawl, head-covering – including once even as an actual sarong over my swimming gear as I walked between my hotel and Waikiki Beach. I love the tip about looking well-presented for the airline staff. It must make a nice change for them to see someone who makes an effort to be both comfortable and thoughtfully put together. I try and do that every day anyway, even if I have no intention of leaving the house, because it feels so much more self-respectful. I have you to thank for that Brenda, going right back to ’40 Over 40′. I’m off to England to visit my daughter in July – maybe this time I’ll get an upgrade…

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    Betsy
    February 14, 2019 at 5:04 pm

    I, too, wear the same outfit coming and going on flights. Makes the packing decisions less stressful! I hate packing and always stress over it. We always try to dress nicely, but need to dress comfortably as well. I keep a packed make up bag in my carry on. When we lost our house in the recent fires I was only able to throw some of my jewelry in my carry on bag before we fled, but I was happy to at least have small portions of make up that helped in the first weeks after the fires. i’m digressing! I like to use plastic baggies in my suitcase to store jewlery, underwear, etc.

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