
Shopping for fingerless gloves at SAX Consignment in San Anselmo
Oh sure, I have presents to shop for, cookies to make, Christmas Eve dinner to plan but what am I doing instead? I’m going through my phone and looking at what none-fashion photos I took this year, photos someone else took using my phone, or photos in texts from family members that I’ve saved. This relaxing activity made me remember that before I was taking clothing and style photos to share on my blog, newsletter, or Instagram, I was taking photos just for the fun of it. I always think I’m someone who doesn’t have hobbies but photography could be my hobby in the coming year!
So this snapshot of my snapshots over the year is mostly sentimental. If you’d rather do anything else but something holiday related, I’ve just given you your out! Enjoy this little time capsule of 2017.
Travels
While I was in Cabo San Lucas this November, my daughter Erin was traveling in Japan. She texted me this street scene from Kyoto. I’m mesmerized!

Street scene in Kyoto
Santa Fe is such a special spot for many people and I’m one of them. It was great to get back there in June. This is a portion of the St. Francis Hotel lobby. Wouldn’t this be a great meditation spot?

Feeling peace in the lobby of the St. Francis Hotel in Santa Fe
Here is another part of the St. Francis Hotel, taken at night. I could be in this space for hours and never feel antsy. Do you have places like that?
One of the highlights of my time in Mexico was visiting Flora Farms. I share lots more about that trip here. One of the small shops on the Flora Farm property was a wine and coffee shop. While hanging out there enjoying my latte I was fascinated by how the barista stood casually at the counter with his feet crossed. He looked so comfortable! I wonder if he teaches yoga on the side.

Twisty legs in Cabo San Lucas
The Wine Country Firestorms
Memories of the fires in Sonoma and Napa Counties are fresh in our minds while prayers go out to Southern Californians fighting blazes of terrifying magnitude. Boy oh boy.
With so much gratitude I look at this picture of my kids, Caitlin and Trevor, wearing those ever important face masks to keep the smoke from hurting our lungs. When Russ and I decided it was time to evacuate, my twin brother, kids, and Mike, Erin’s husband, if they were married, showed up in record time. I mean within forty-five minutes! All of them! My next door neighbor marveled at how quickly a flock of family members were there to help. I’m so proud to be part of this family!

Caitlin, me and Trevor in the essential accessory in Sonoma County
When it was time to come back to our home, I stopped at Mollie Stone’s in Greenbrae and bought supplies to make our house feel better. It needed some tender loving care.

Shopping for house treats after the fires
The Sonoma Plaza was decorated with children’s art, expressing appreciation for the firefighters and neighbors who came to save homes and our town. Of course, nearly 9,000 structures were lost in the Wine Country fires and recovery will be a long process. This tribute helps the healing.

Wrapping the Sonoma Plaza trees in love and appreciation

Children expressing appreciation to first responders
My home life goes beyond Sonoma
In my heart, I have more than one home. I have my Sonoma home and then there’s the place I go home to and that’s Fargo, North Dakota and western Minnesota where my dad and my younger brother live. I have nieces and a nephew and most of them have kids. It’s a big family!

Once a North Dakotan, always a North Dakotan!
One person, Carson Wentz, is a North Dakotan who has hit the national stage. He came from North Dakota State University in Fargo where he played football for the NDSU Bison. I watched him play in college (on TV) and then he was named the #2 draft pick for the pros. The Philadelphia Eagles snapped him up and he’s been a phenomenal starting quarterback in his first year and now his second. This picture is taken off my TV screens. It’s so fun to watch him play because even in the pros there are so many North Dakota fans wearing the green and yellow jerseys from NDSU.
I decided I was going to quit being a fan when two weeks ago he suffered a torn ACL in the game against the Rams and that ends his season. What a crushing blow! But my sports moratorium is over. I’ve been watching the NDSU Bison march through their competition and they’re back in the finals again looking for their sixth championship win in seven years. Go Bison! That college championship game is on January 6th, 9 am PST on ESPN2.
Our family watches and texts each other throughout the game. Makes me miss Mom. She was a huge fan.
When Carson Wentz made a video to his fans the day after his injury, he was wearing a Bison jersey, not an Eagles jersey, and included North Dakota as the fans he knew were hurting right along with him. Hey Carson, you’re a class act and we’ve got your back!

Carson Wentz wins a wider audience in the pros
I’m visiting Dad and my brother, sister-in-law, and nieces and their kids, etc., after Christmas. Only Auntie Brenda will travel to North Dakota in the middle of winter. Foolish? Or bravish? I’ll let you know! Plans are to be making lefse with these beauties. I heard their first batch was a bomb. I’ll bring my experience to the mix to make this Norwegian treat that we all lust for.

Jessie, Wendy, and Carly making lefse
I’ll also plan to see Mother’s friends, the Church Ladies. Here I am this summer with Marge and Bonnie who are two of the members of the quilting group Mom belonged to at Dent United Methodist Church. She loved them and so do I!

The Church ladies share their love for Mother.
I Heart Pairs
Here’s a good pair, Russ and me! This was on Mother’s Day at b. Patisserie in San Francisco.

Cuddling and eating pastries at b. Patisserie
Another great pair! Two ghosts filling the taupe polka dot ceramic heels that I bought on a fun summer day in Battle Lake, Minnesota, not far from where Mom and Dad lived on Dead Lake. I bought the felted ghosts on a shopping trip with Mom at the Norsk Hostfest in Minot, North Dakota. Boy, we had fun!

Ghosts from the Norsk Hostfest
This seems to be our pose! Here we are in Santa Fe on my birthday in June.

Happy days in Santa Fe
The Home Office
Well, this is where I am right now, tapping away on that keyboard sitting on my Mid-Century Danish desk. I spend a lot of time here writing blog posts and writing content for image consultants for my Monthly Marketing Bundle program.

Feeling gratitude for my home office in Sonoma
I’m not alone in there. Bella keeps me company and not always in a good way. When she sleeps on top of my files or papers, that’s fine. But when she walks back and forth across the keyboard, her tail swishing in front of my screen, she’s not helping.

Bella is sleeping on the job
On Office Tuesday when Caitlin is here doing admin stuff, bookkeeping and helping me with ideas for the Monthly Marketing Bundle program, she often scoots Bella out. “We’re working here!” she’ll say. But sometimes Caitlin’s flat on her stomach on the floor doing paperwork stuff while Bella snoozes spread out on Caity’s back.
Here, my office mate is pretending to shed real tears over something I’m fretting over. She sure can make me laugh! I’ve also never been around someone who actually sings while she works. We work hard on Tuesdays but we have fun at the same time, mostly thanks to her!

Caitlin sheds pretend tears
One of the marvelous things that the members of the Monthly Marketing Bundle group are doing is coming to Sonoma in February for our Nearly Annual MMB Retreat. (That thing Bella does, walking across the keyboard blocking the screen? She’s doing it now!!)
These are image consultants from all parts of the US plus Canada and Australia. We’ve done it once before and it was amazing!
What you’re looking at here are our scheduling notes for the training programs that will happen during February 6 – 8. I love looking at these plans on the table. It’s a reminder of how dreams become reality!

Planning the Nearly Annual MMB Retreat
Quotes that energize me
I’m a sucker for quotes. Here are four of my favorites this year which I found on Instagram.

A yoga master born in 1918

The wisdom of Winnie the Pooh

Can you relate?

A really good recipe for people who age!
Looking forward to the New Year
Here’s wishing you a winning year ahead!

My Miss Congeniality award from 1969 is a great Oscar party prop
The little card with the bird sits in my office as well. There’s much to be thankful for. One of my greatest gifts is YOU! Thank you very much for showing up here on the blog, for cheering me on and others, for sharing your great experience and wisdom. It’s been a grand year!

Thank you to YOU!
As we come near the end of the year, share what happened this year that graced your life. Where is your gratitude coming from? We’re all ears!
XO
18 Comments
Trinnie Q
December 18, 2017 at 9:15 pmThank you dear Brenda for sharing your beautiful thoughts and images. I hope 2018 brings you good health, courage when you need it, continued love from those you cherish, and lots of laughter, so precious for the soul. My beautiful boys, Darcy , Dominic, and gorgeous fella , twin sister, family and friends, sustained me this year. So did my moments by the sea, my garden, and time taken to replenish my energy, in this hectic life. But, the added suprise was my kindling of my shy love and learning, about fashion and creativity, and soul. Such new found joy! So thanks a million for your inspiration and encouragement ! Sending warm love from Oz
Brenda
December 21, 2017 at 10:04 amSo great to hear the things that sustain you and the kindling of your shy self! May she flourish more and more in the New Year! Thanks for all the love you share with me and everyone who visits this blog. I so appreciate it! Love from Sonoma!
Kathy
December 19, 2017 at 3:42 amMy gratitude for the blessings in my life (family, home, work and friends) comes from my opening my heart and minds eye to GOD and the infinite love he/she shows me daily. 2017 has brought challenges but also deepening faith and a willingness to “turn it over” and be still. I am a work in process and 2018 will undoubtedly see me struggling to achieve and maintain peace.
Brenda
December 21, 2017 at 10:06 amI find your comment inspiring. With the worries that showed up in December, I dusted off the slogan “Let Go and Let God” and felt relief! Always a good thing to remember that “stillness” is sometimes the very best “action” to take. Thanks so very much!
BRENDA
December 19, 2017 at 7:40 amHi Brenda, I so enjoyed seeing your year in review, thanks for sharing. I especially enjoyed the photos of you with your husband, & your home office. Love your feline office manager, she knows how to relax! I could relate to all the quotes & saved them to my quote “box”. Happy Holidays & best wishes for 2018. 🙂
Brenda
December 21, 2017 at 10:07 amHappy Holidays to you too, Brenda! Yes, Bella knows how to take breaks and seize the moment! Maybe she will be my mascot in 2018. All the best to you and yours this season!!
Kathleen O'Brien
December 19, 2017 at 8:48 amwhat a marvelous post – such an interesting year – but best of all it makes me think of my year and loving the life we have. Thanks so much – Merry Christmas and happy new year full of wonder and delight.
Brenda
December 21, 2017 at 10:08 amKathleen, that is the best result of posting this blog–that it reminds you of your lovely life! Merry Christmas to you too! Wonder and delight. Love it!
Cindy Scurry
December 19, 2017 at 9:49 amLove this post! Love all the quotes and pictures. You and your husband are quite a handsome pair!
Brenda
December 21, 2017 at 10:08 amThanks, Cindy!!
Mary Lou Hartman
December 19, 2017 at 10:46 amThank you for this positive and uplifting post. Hope you have wonderful holidays!
Brenda
December 21, 2017 at 10:08 amMary Lou, I’m wishing the same for you! Happy Holidays!
Katherine Cramer
December 19, 2017 at 2:42 pmIs it possible to chuckle and tear up at the same time? Yes. Ah, Brenda, your musings and insights bring me such a feeling of connection in a thread where I can’t really indulge in my first tier of family and friends. I think that is why I cherish the Community you have created and deeply nurture. I am grateful for you and all the Dear Ones in this thread. This year has been surreal. Fires, disasters and fiery folks. My trip to Canada was fabulous and reassuring that people everywhere are mostly focused on caring for each other. I am grateful for time spent with music, art and creativity. My teachers are so very patient. I am grateful that Nature has the capacity to repair and show us how we can be a part of continued cycles of renewal. I am grateful for increases in consciousness …often through pain. Stories bring me sublime moments of Joy and for that I am grateful.
Brenda
December 21, 2017 at 10:12 amOh, I do love your gratitude list. When you mention teachers, it brings back memories of great teachers in my own life. And Nature, yes, completely. Cycles of renewal. Opportunities continue to show up. Thank you for your contributions to this Community and all the Loved Ones here. I adore it!
Cathy Bonnett
December 20, 2017 at 6:07 amThank you for this lovely post. I decided to read fashion blogs instead of the news this morning! Good choice.
Brenda
December 21, 2017 at 10:13 amCathy, well, I’m sure by reading fashion blogs you won’t have missed anything that can’t be recapped at the top of each and every hour of the day. Wouldn’t it be kind of fun if fashion inspiration was aired at the top of every hour each day?
Kathy Peyton
August 18, 2018 at 2:46 pmMy mother and her family lived near Battle Lake MN. We visited there for years. Sadly they’re all gone now. I love your ideas and inspiration!
Brenda
August 27, 2018 at 6:16 pmI’m so sad that we didn’t make it to Battle Lake this year. It’s such a great place. Thanks for sharing, Kathy!